Advice On Relationships That Will Change Your Thinking

We are all Seeking Fulfilment
Contrary to popular belief and old advice on relationships we are not really looking for happiness. We all believe we are searching for happiness and I do agree it would be nice to be happy in every area of our life. Though just imagine for a moment that relationships are not truly about being happy. For the purpose of what I am about to share with you let’s just pretend that relationships are about being complete, relationships are about being whole. We are on a quest to find the other half of who we truly are. So with that accepted we can realise that any relationship that doesn’t cause us to grow and develop into wholeness is never going to work and will never bring fulfilment. I know this is contrary to other advice on relationships but If you find this an interesting concept! Then just hold that thought and read on and I will reveal much much more.

We are Three Minds and Four Bodies (Sounds Complicated?)
Let’s talk briefly about who we are as an individual divine being first of all. In the Ancient Hawaiian tradition and western esoteric systems and indeed most other shamanistic traditions from around the world there is held a belief that we are four bodies, which makes sense when you think of it because we have our physical body and it’s our physical body that houses all of our other bodies.

Now this supports us and provides the support for the mind or mental body where we have our conscious mind, makes sense so far! In addition to the physical body and mental body we also have an emotional body, this is the source of our unconscious mind thoughts and actions. Then finally there is the fourth body which is the spiritual body the place of your higher conscious mind. So in summary we are four bodies Physical, Mental, Emotional and Spiritual and we are three minds Conscious, Unconscious and Higher Conscious. Now this is a different sort of advice on relationships! EXCITED YET!!!

Whatever You Think You Are Your More Than That
So each day as you go about your day to day stuff most of your thinking is being done by your conscious mind. So if you were to be asked today “who are you?” I suspect you would give a conscious mind answer. I am a Wife or I’m a husband maybe a mother a daughter or a son, perhaps a partner, a lover or even single? Rest assured whatever it is that you think you are, however you can conceive of yourself consciously? You are so much more than that; your conscious mind simply cannot put a label on the totality of who you are.

Create Your Perfect Relationship Unconsciously
Now the unconscious mind, that’s the part of you that you are not conscious of, right NOW, and your higher conscious mind have been known of in ancient civilisations and cultures for thousands of years. In our modern times western psychology only began to understand these two powerful minds fairly recently, arguably as little as only 50 to 70 years.

Now this is important!! Your conscious mind can only communicate with your unconscious mind and it’s your unconscious mind is the one that can communicate with your higher conscious mind. Now do bear this in mind when I tell you that it’s your higher conscious mind that has the power to create your perfect partner, lover and life and as you ponder that we will continue.

So you want to be loved and to love, you want that perfect relationship. So the first question I would have to ask is do you love yourself? People (not you obviously) have a tendency to look outside of themselves for all of their happiness and fulfilment and obviously to feel loved!! Yet most people (again of course not you) treat their unconscious mind like a dog, and in-fact not even a dog that they particularly like.

How can we possibly expect to find love and respect when we are so unwilling to give ourselves love and respect? So what can happen instead (again obviously not you) is people get into the very bad habit of beating themselves up creating for themselves unhappiness and a permanent feeling of not being good enough.

Think of this analogy, you get up your feeling a bit down a bit depressed and you look in the mirror and you say I’m fat and ugly and no one could ever love me, I don’t deserve to be loved! Then the very next day you get up feeling good and you say jeeze I’m lookin goooood, hot, look out world here I come. All of this can be quite confusing for the poor unconscious mind it just scratches its head and says EH!! But yesterday I was fat and ugly??

Here’s is the first piece of secret advice on relationships you are going to learn with Relationship Training Systems. Your unconscious mind takes everything personally, that’s everything, so everything you think about yourself, everything you say about others, your unconscious mind thinks you are talking about you!!

We must learn to love ourselves if we want to be loved by others we need to rejoice in our divine magnificence and ADORE ourselves, to give us the grace to allow others to ADORE us for who we truly are.

So if you’ve tried the old Advice on Relationships

And your willing to learn to Love and adore yourself!!! Then welcome to our web page, we have the secrets to share that will make it easy for you.